Single Free Dating In Wichita, Ks
A friend of mine was born and raised in Kansas, and he ended up moving across the country in his mid-20s after falling for a girl he worked with during a summer job. They’re married now and he’s as happy as ever, but he’s often talked about missing his family and friends as well as the Kansas weather, sports, and food.
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Wichita, in particular, is a city he’s told me about. Not only is it the largest city in the state (population 389,902) — but it’s also artistically and culturally exciting (supposedly the birthplace of the electric guitar). While Wichita has so much to offer its residents, some singles still struggle to find that special someone. This is why we’ve compiled a list of 12 ways to help you get back on that dating horse!
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1Wichita Dating Sites
You’re only one person. Between work and/or school, household and family duties, and appointments and other errands, you probably barely have time to eat dinner, workout, and shower before going to bed. How is dating supposed to fit in there? It can if you’re on a dating site. While you’re leading a meeting, cleaning the garage, or taking the dog to the vet — the dating site will work for you, scouting potential matches and presenting them to you. All you have to do is log in and express whether you like the person or not. The following five dating sites are the ones that, in our eyes, take the cake:
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Best Singles Site
Match.com is like the Boeing 777 of dating sites. It’s been around forever (since 1995), it’s massive (over 30 million members), and it’ll get you to your destination quickly and successfully (responsible for the most romantic connections of any dating site). Not to mention Match is affordable. Discounted premium memberships start around $6, but a free basic membership will get the job done!
Our expert ratings are based on factors such as popularity, usability, value, and success rate of each site.
Relationships:Friends, Dates, and Relationships
Match System:Browse by zip, age, appearance, more
Our Experts Say:“Match has facilitated the most dates and relationships of any dating site, and its large audience and high success rate make it our top review...” Full Review»
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User Base | Gender Ratio | Popularity (Visits/Mo.) | |
All Singles* | 49%* 51%* | 39.7 Million* | Try Match.com FREE |
Best Site for Professionals
Men and women on Elite Singles are well-read, worldly, and motivated (more than 80% have at least a bachelor’s degree). Plus, they’re past their partying days and are ready to settle down. If that sounds up your alley, this is the site you’ll want to try. It’ll take you maybe 20 minutes to fill out your profile and answer all of the questions, but it’s totally worth it. Elite Singles will use this information to scour the site for the most compatible people for you.
Our expert ratings are based on factors such as popularity, usability, value, and success rate of each site.
Relationships:Serious Relationships
Match System:Search, Receive Partner Suggestions
Our Experts Say:“EliteSingles is a leading dating site just for busy, single professionals. More than 80% of members have earned a college degree, and most are looking for a serious commitment...” Full Review»
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User Base | Gender Ratio | Popularity (Visits/Mo.) | |
All Singles* | 44%* 56%* | 2 Million* | Browse Profiles Free |
Over 50 & Senior Site
What’s the maximum and minimum age difference of someone you’d consider dating? Two years? Five years? Ten years? It seems to matter more as we get older, so for mature daters who place an emphasis on age, we present OurTime. Singles 50 and older flock to this dating site because of the audience, of course, but also because registering, searching, and chatting is super simple.
Our expert ratings are based on factors such as popularity, usability, value, and success rate of each site.
Relationships:Dates and Relationships
Match System:Search by profiles by zip and more
Our Experts Say:“OurTime is well-known in the over-50 dating crowd, particularly because it has a ton of helpful search features and an easy layout...” Full Review»
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User Base | Gender Ratio | Popularity (Visits/Mo.) | |
Mature Singles (50+)* | 48%* 52%* | 8.9 Million* | Over 50? Try It FREE |
For Black Men & Women Only
African-Americans make up about 11% of Wichita’s population. Statistics also show that only about 27,900 black men and women don’t have a wife or husband, but that doesn’t include those who have a girlfriend or boyfriend. Just typing that makes me feel frustrated for black singles who want to meet each other, but the good news is BlackPeopleMeet is filling that void. The site sees over 1 million black and biracial users a month and counting!
Our expert ratings are based on factors such as popularity, usability, value, and success rate of each site.
Relationships:Deep Relationships or Just Casual Dates
Match System:Search by location, age, more
Our Experts Say:“BlackPeopleMeet.com is the one of the largest and most popular dating sites for black and biracial singles, and the site is used by more than 5 million people a month...” Full Review»
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User Base | Gender Ratio | Popularity (Visits/Mo.) | |
Black Singles* | 47%* 53%* | 5.7 Million* | FREE Trial for New Users |
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Nerve has an awesome list of the 50 Greatest Songs About One-Night Stands, including Prince’s “Little Red Corvette,” The Beatles’ “Norwegian Wood,” and Daft Punk’s “Get Lucky.” This could be a great playlist as you search for sex buddies on Adult Friend Finder. The site has 77 million members and will narrow them down to those in Wichita for you!
Our expert ratings are based on factors such as popularity, usability, value, and success rate of each site.
Relationships:Hookups Only
Match System:Search by location, interest, more
Our Experts Say:“Make no mistake: this site isn't about making friends, it's about short-term 'hookups' and affairs only. Note that a basic account costs $14.95/month, but it's well worth it if casual sex is your goal...”
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User Base | Gender Ratio | Popularity (Visits/Mo.) | |
All Singles* | 65%* 35%* | 25.5 Million* | $14.95/Month |
Popular Dating Apps
For a lot of people, myself included, our phones have basically become a part of our bodies. We have it on us all the time, and we would feel lost and upset if something happened to it. Almost everything we need is already on our phone, and if it’s not, we can download it. If you don’t have a dating app, you’re missing a big opportunity — you could be looking for your ideal date wherever you go. Here are three dating apps we’re big fans of because of their popularity, pricing, and helpful features:
Zoosk
- Relationships: Casual Dates, Relationships
- Match System: Search for and receive matches
- About the App: Zoosk is the number one app for finding dates, and if you sync up your Google+ or Facebook account, you can have a profile in seconds. The app has 38 million members and will deliver matches to your inbox on a daily basis based on your behavior such as who you search for, like or don't like, and message. The Carousel is another section for matching (tap the heart if it's a yes and the X if it's a no).
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User Base | Gender Ratio | Popularity (Visits/Mo.) | App Cost |
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All Singles* | 48%* 52%* | 3.8 Million* | Free Download |
Match.com
- Relationships: Fun Dates, Serious Relationships
- Match System: Browse by location, age, interest, and more
- About the App: Available via the App Store and Google Play, Match is a fantastic app for dates and relationships. With a user base of 30 million singles, Match is where you'll have a high chance of success. It's free to download, create a profile, search for date prospects, and receive compatible matches based on personalized preferences. Free members can also chat with select members and send unlimited likes.
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User Base | Gender Ratio | Popularity (Visits/Mo.) | App Cost |
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All Singles* | 49%* 51%* | 13.5 Million* | Free Download |
EliteSingles
- Relationships: Deep Relationships
- Match System: Search by education, lifestyle habits, age
- About the App: Commitment-minded, professional daters will feel at home with EliteSingles, which can be downloaded for free in the App Store or Google Play. Not only is everyone looking for a long-term partner, but 80% of members hold a bachelor's, master's, or doctorate degree. EliteSingles sees 210,000 visitors and 2,500 users finding love every month, so it's one of the fastest growing and most reputable apps.
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User Base | Gender Ratio | Popularity (Visits/Mo.) | App Cost |
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All Singles* | 43%* 57%* | 290,000* | Free Download |
Wichita Singles Bars
Over the years, I’ve had numerous drinks bought for me while I was out at bars, but I’ve only ever bought one drink for a stranger who caught my eye. I think I’ve just never been bold enough. It’s the 21st century, though, and everyone should put themselves out there and buy a drink for someone they’re attracted to. It’s a classic, yet still fantastic, way to start a conversation. In this section, we’re highlighting eight Wichita bars for your enjoyment!
Harry’s Uptown Bar & Grill has been called a gem, and it's easy to see why. It serves delicious, traditional American fare like potato skins, salads, soups, BLTs, burgers, and wraps. On the menu, you'll also find cheap drinks with a heavy pour. Harry's has outdoor seating, large TVs, and free wifi, and smokers are welcome, too. Kelly B. said: 'I'm giving Harry's Uptown Bar & Grill 5/5 stars for its ambiance. Also a sexy booth in each corner for the lovers on date night.'
Open Sunday through Saturday from 4 p.m. to 2 a.m., Lucky’s Everyday jokingly says it's the reason 'we can't have nice things.' This bar offers free pool on Sundays, live music throughout the week, and themed dance parties on Fridays and the weekends ('80s anyone?!). Lucky's has draft beers, such as Odell Rupture and New Belgium Fat Tire, as well as food such as breakfast burritos and Eggplant Asado-Silog.
I love me a good dirty martini, so Mort’s Martini Bar is right up my alley. If you agree, head to Madison Avenue, and that's where you'll find it. For more than two decades, Mort's has been providing the community with 'great drinks, fine cigars, and amazing music.' Try a 007 Martini and a Mini Mort cigar while you listen to performances by artists like Tim Murrow and Beau Jarvis.
Wine Dive features more than 40 wines by the glass and 350 types of bottled wines, but don't forget to take advantage of weekly specials such as $5 martinis and cocktails on Thursdays. In 2016, Wine Dive won Wine Spectator's Best of Award of Excellence, so you don't just have to take our word for it. When your stomach starts growling, order the Drunken Bread, Dive Burger, or Wild Boar Bolognese.
At Barleycorn’s, it's all about the music. The venue has hosted bands from all over, like Har Mar Superstar and Vehicles, and also holds regular events like Emo Night, Open Mic Night, Comedy Open Mic Night, and Happy Hour Trivia (which is perfect for mingling!). Aaron Horner shared his experience at Barleycorn's on Facebook, writing: 'I have never had a bad experience at Barleycorn's. Everyone there are great, down-to-earth people.'
Headshots Bar & Grill has called itself 'Kansas' Favorite Video Game Bar,' and we've found a lot of people who agree. It has a 4-star rating on Yelp, with one review from Ian K., who said: 'The bartenders are always friendly, and the crowd is chill. From Mario kart to board games like D&G, this place has a great mix.' On the beer list, what caught our eye was the Not Your Father's Mountain Ale and the Calling IPA. In terms of the food, we'd go for the fried mushrooms, Hickory BBQ burger, or Grandma's grilled cheese.
Located in the Delano District next to the clock tower, the Monarch is known to have the largest craft bourbon and whiskey selection in Kansas. Offerings include straight bourbon, blended whiskey, and small batches. You also have your choice of signature cocktails (e.g., the Cranberry Arnold Palmer) if you want something a little tamer. And remember to order the Monarch wings, the Cuban sandwich, or the St. Louis style ribs to soak up all the alcohol.
USA Today has called the hamburger at the Oasis Lounge one of the top in the country, so that's definitely something you should eat when you're there. You've also got grilled chicken sandwiches, fried fish platters, and nachos. No matter what you get, wash it down with an Oasis Tea, Starfish Bomb, or any of the wines or beers. Cody W. raved: 'Always good drink specials, always good people... the bartenders are just about perfect!'
4Wichita Speed Dating
Have you ever been on a date that just wasn’t going well for either of you and you wished you could be honest, call it a night, and try again with someone else? Well, that’s pretty much how it goes at speed dating events. You get to have about 20 mini dates with different people, and if one isn’t working out, don’t worry because it’ll be over in a couple of minutes and you’ll get to meet someone new. We like to use Pre-Dating when searching for speed dating events — it’s easy to find events in your town!
5Wichita Singles Events
If you’re an active person, you’ll love singles events — a majority of them are activity based, which takes some of the pressure off you when you’re approaching a potential date. Eventbrite (linked below) is among a ton of sites that promote events in Wichita and cities all across the country. A main focus of singles events can be speed dating, which we mentioned above, but they can also include rock climbing, bowling, kayaking, putt-putt, and anything else you can think of.
6Wichita Singles Clubs
Google “Wichita clubs,” and you’ll see a bunch of options on the map, especially in the downtown area. We found clubs for dancing, watching comedy, and for gay and lesbian singles, among others. WichitaNightlife.com is a great resource for learning more about your local clubs, including their themes, hours of operation, pricing, and dress code.
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7Wichita Chat Rooms
As I writer, I find that I’m often better expressing myself with a keyboard or pen than with verbal communication, and I’m sure there are others who feel the same way. Chat rooms are super helpful for singles who are on the shy side or who tend to get intimidated in front of romantic interests. And, with chat rooms, you can practice your moves and see if you like the person first before meeting in real life and putting in a lot of effort.
8Wichita Personals
According to PBS, the first personal ads were published in 1685 in a British journal. Fast forward hundreds of years, and personal ads still exist, but they’re almost entirely posted online. Online personal ads are similar to online dating, but you’ll usually see more acronyms — like SWF (single white female), A/S/L (age/sex/location), D&D free (drug and disease free), or MSM (men seeking men). Below are five sites we’d recommend:
9Go to a Thunder, Force, Wingnuts or Shockers Game
People can’t get enough of their sports in Wichita — there’s the Wichita Thunder ice hockey team, the Force football team, the Wingnuts baseball team, or the Shockers college teams (e.g., basketball, volleyball, and tennis). In addition to celebrating your passion for sports, attending a game puts you in front of thousands of like-minded people. Simply turn to the woman next to you and ask her who her favorite player is, or offer to buy a beer for the guy who’s also in line at the concession stand.
If you’re a huge sports fan, go cheer on your teams but also strike up a conversation with your fellow Shockers or Wingnuts. You never know what it’ll lead to!
You can even get in on the action yourself by joining one of Wichita’s non-professional sports leagues such as for archery, BMX, fencing, and golf, to name a few. Check out WichitaSports.com for more information.
10Attend the River Festival or Others
I mentioned earlier that Wichita is a cultural and artistic mecca, and hundreds of festivals, fairs, concerts, exhibitions, and block parties are put on every year. It would be hard not to meet people at one of these events. Also, since you already have something in common with the other attendees (your love of art, music, or what have you), it’ll be less awkward to start talking to someone.
The Wichita River Festival is just some of the events held in Wichita every year, and hundreds of people attend them.
Some of the most famous and beloved events held in Wichita are the River Festival, the Flight Festival, the McConnell Air Force Base Open House and Airshow, and the Tallgrass Film Festival. You could also visit the websites of Wichita’s museums to see what kinds of things they have going on every week.
11Check Out Religious or Spiritual Centers
More than 52% of Wichita’s residents consider themselves to be religious. The breakdown by denomination includes 15.63% Catholic, 1.51% Latter-Day Saints, 12.37% are part of another Christian faith, 0.25% practice Islam, and 0.90% practice an Eastern faith. Why not observe your religion, spirituality, or beliefs while also making new friends, which could then lead to a date or relationship?
Religious and/or spiritual singles will find a lot of groups they can join in Wichita to come together with those who have the same beliefs.
The Catholic Diocese of Wichita, NewSpring Church, and the Kalpa Bhadra Meditation Center are some of the churches and organizations we found during our research. To find more options, google “spiritual centers Wichita,” “religious organizations Wichita,” or terms like that.
12Do Something Good for the Community
If philanthropy and maintaining and improving the Wichita community is near and dear to your heart, volunteering in some capacity allows you to do what you love and connect with people. It could be delivering meals to the elderly, cleaning up the parks, spending a Saturday at an animal shelter, or performing other forms of kindness.
The Red Cross (pictured) has a branch in Wichita that could always use some help, and you’re sure to meet people who also care about philanthropy.
Some organizations in the city include the United Way of the Plains, the Wichita Children’s Home, or the YMCA of Wichita. VolunteerMatch.com is also a useful search engine for finding local projects to participate in.
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My friend and his wife go to Kansas every year, and maybe they’ll even move back there one day. Until then, he’ll continue sharing stories about how wonderful the state, its cities, and its people are, and I look forward to hearing them. If you’re single in Wichita, though, you don’t have to leave the state to meet your future wife or husband (or just a compatible person). Start taking advantage of the tips on this list, and you’ll no longer be a tumbleweed blowing in the dating wind!
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